HAVE I BECOME THE TOXIC PARTNER?

Hello there! I trust that your week has been abundant with wisdom and completely positive and all that nice stuff; I just planted some greens in the garden so I could say that mine has been great! Anyway with all the good vibes going round I came to a kind of revelation while deep in my…

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STILL GASLIGHTING

Hello dears! I wrote about gaslighting a while ago and this morning I was utterly dismayed to wake up to some more of it. About three days ago I realized I might be a bit toxic myself, based on occurrences from that night and I really went through it, aiding with this revelation were the suicidal thoughts,…

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DEATHLY HALLOWS: BAD RELATIONS AND TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS

Hello mamis!! I hope you’re all doing well, I missed you (from the bottom of my heart I promise) so welcome back, and pick your assigned seats…… Last week was wild; from the story of the gospel artists who had some convoluted threesome and infected the lady with herpes (the Greek God of STD’s as somebody…

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WARNING SIGNS OF A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP YOU SHOULD NOT IGNORE: PART 2

Hello foxxy mamas; here is the continuation to yesterday’s post, because you already know what we talked about here, let’s get right into it…. Entitlement The toxic person will feel entitled to do and have whatever he wants regardless of your feelings or the moral implications. They have an absolute right to do whatever they want and if you disobey…

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HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE WITH A NARCISSIST

The biohazard warning is very necessary in this case, because I am about to tell you about an extremely toxic character that you may encounter in a relationship and I do hope this warning will not go ignored. Emotional manipulation is what a narcissist does, and it is extremely draining to the recipient who becomes…

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OF GOOD INTENTIONS AND GAS-LIGHTING

If you know about the film from 1944 called gaslight then you know exactly what I will be talking about in this here post. If not, here’s a brief definition: to gaslight someone is to gently manipulate them, and coax them into questioning their own sanity. It might start innocently enough with some simple lies…

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