HAVE I BECOME THE TOXIC PARTNER?

Hello there! I trust that your week has been abundant with wisdom and completely positive and all that nice stuff; I just planted some greens in the garden so I could say that mine has been great! Anyway with all the good vibes going round I came to a kind of revelation while deep in my…

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DEATHLY HALLOWS: BAD RELATIONS AND TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS

Hello mamis!! I hope you’re all doing well, I missed you (from the bottom of my heart I promise) so welcome back, and pick your assigned seats…… Last week was wild; from the story of the gospel artists who had some convoluted threesome and infected the lady with herpes (the Greek God of STD’s as somebody…

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WHAT GETTING CHEATED ON DOES TO YOU

It’s not rocket science that getting cheated on sucks big time. Worse, if your cheat is also gas-lighting you and is a narcissist. This is enough to give anyone toxic shock syndrome to say the truth. There should be a unit in hospitals for people who get cheated on, and those who get all I’ve mentioned above…

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THOSE DIRTY GENES: WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT

So I wonder, is cheating something that someone does out of some urge, or necessity, or is it ingrained in our genes; written down in our DNA inĀ indelibleĀ ink? I was curious about this so I did some research, and lo and behold! I found some different reasons people cheat, and more importantly, the types of…

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OF GOOD INTENTIONS AND GAS-LIGHTING

If you know about the film from 1944 called gaslight then you know exactly what I will be talking about in this here post. If not, here’s a brief definition: to gaslight someone is to gently manipulate them, and coax them into questioning their own sanity. It might start innocently enough with some simple lies…

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THE UNREPENTANT B-WORD

Let’s just be real for a second here; sometimes a relationship gets so bad that you are at pains not to commit homicide and such; and in worse cases  it gets to a point even beyond that, when you feel you have to hold your whole being tight to keep yourself from imploding or exploding….

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