WHEN DOVES CRY; HAVING A PARTNER WHO IS NEVER SATISFIED

The biggest difference is in the tone that they use; if you feel inspired to do better or try harder when they talk it’s good criticism, but if it feels like sweat slipping down your back into your butt crack on the day you wore light, bright, fitting pants, that’s nagging.

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WHY SOME MEN CAN NEVER APOLOGIZE

Hello there!! I trust you’ve all been great and healthy; and I apologize for the super-long impromptu break that I took; I had to attend a trade fair and had no warning of just how intensive it was going to be, given that I was not even a sole stand-display so you best believe that…

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WHY IT’S DIFFICULT TO LEAVE A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP; AND HOW TO LEAVE

At this point, who would want you- broken, jealous, failing, small-minded, silly, and miserable at everything as you are? You would be dumb to leave because they’re good to you and treat you like a human being (sometimes). This is the rope they keep you tethered to; and the greatest reason why it’s difficult to leave a toxic relationship.

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STILL GASLIGHTING

Hello dears! I wrote about gaslighting a while ago and this morning I was utterly dismayed to wake up to some more of it. About three days ago I realized I might be a bit toxic myself, based on occurrences from that night and I really went through it, aiding with this revelation were the suicidal thoughts,…

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HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE WITH A NARCISSIST

The biohazard warning is very necessary in this case, because I am about to tell you about an extremely toxic character that you may encounter in a relationship and I do hope this warning will not go ignored. Emotional manipulation is what a narcissist does, and it is extremely draining to the recipient who becomes…

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OF GOOD INTENTIONS AND GAS-LIGHTING

If you know about the film from 1944 called gaslight then you know exactly what I will be talking about in this here post. If not, here’s a brief definition: to gaslight someone is to gently manipulate them, and coax them into questioning their own sanity. It might start innocently enough with some simple lies…

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