STILL GASLIGHTING

Hello dears! I wrote about gaslighting a while ago and this morning I was utterly dismayed to wake up to some more of it. About three days ago I realized I might be a bit toxic myself, based on occurrences from that night and I really went through it, aiding with this revelation were the suicidal thoughts,…

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TOXICITY: WHY HE DOES NOT WANT YOU TO GET A JOB

They say that all is fair in love and in war but is it really? Is it fair, for instance, to take someone as a prisoner simply because they love you? This post is about a major issue that I think does not get the airplay it deserves; when a woman is in a relationship with a…

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HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE WITH A NARCISSIST

The biohazard warning is very necessary in this case, because I am about to tell you about an extremely toxic character that you may encounter in a relationship and I do hope this warning will not go ignored. Emotional manipulation is what a narcissist does, and it is extremely draining to the recipient who becomes…

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OF GOOD INTENTIONS AND GAS-LIGHTING

If you know about the film from 1944 called gaslight then you know exactly what I will be talking about in this here post. If not, here’s a brief definition: to gaslight someone is to gently manipulate them, and coax them into questioning their own sanity. It might start innocently enough with some simple lies…

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